In addition to the trauma, there is a ton of self-criticism. So part of the unconscious conversation when we get activated is a judgement, a criticism about being activated. One part of self being nasty to another part. So this compounds the trauma, makes the experience more acute. The solution is compassion for that critical… Read more

The greatest aspect of helping people is being both a witness and partner in their transformation and the depth of connection which takes place in our hearts and souls. Read more

As far as we can discern, the sole purpose of human existence is to kindle a light in the darkness of mere being. – Carl Gustav Jung  Sometimes the challenges of life can be too difficult to face alone. With the help of a caring, nurturing, non-judgmental advocate, I can help you face these challenges… Read more

Compassion and communication skills are the foundation of family therapy. We teach and promote a style of non-judgmental listening that nurtures the seeds of compassion. Through this process, family members begin to feel encouraged and understood. Rigid roles become modified and more flexible. Knowledge and action combine to move the family forward on the path… Read more

What awareness is necessary when dealing with issues of addiction? We believe the problem is not alcohol, drugs, food, sex, or gambling; but instead these are symptoms of a deeper psychic or emotional malady. Substances often serve as a faulty attempt to cure this malady which may stem from an emotional wound, disappointment or disconnection.… Read more

To a large extent family therapy consists of identifying and exploring issues that previously have been avoided, ignored or misunderstood.  The act of bringing them out into the light, putting them into a context of compassion, leads to deeper understanding and connection between family members. Read more